BY LINDA EGENES

Discover Your Relaxation Lifestyle

Discover Your Relaxation Lifestyle

There’s a new phrase floating around—doom-scrolling—and anyone with a smartphone can figure out what that means. Then there are the parents who are valiantly caring for kids while simultaneously conducting meetings and teaching classes via Zoom. Under more pressure are our nation’s valiant essential workers, who venture out every day to work in hospitals, keep our grocery stores stocked with food, or run our nation’s transport systems, to name a few of their heroic contributions. And finally there are the rest of us, trying to stay sane while social distancing, self-quarantining, and wearing masks—now recommended inside your own home if a family member is working outside.

With the pandemic showing no sign of stopping, most of us are in need of mental, physical, and emotional relaxation. But you can’t just tell yourself, “Relax, mate, it’s all going to be OK,” and expect your blood pressure to return to normal.

We all need a little help, and that’s why I highly recommend taking a do-it-yourself spa day to pamper yourself with massage, aroma therapy, and relaxing herbal teas—all happening inside your own home, since that’s where it’s at these days.

And once you get the hang of it, you can incorporate these easy tips into your daily routine wherever you go. Why not make relaxation a daily habit? With the challenges the entire world is facing today, relaxation is a tool we all can use to bring our minds and hearts closer to our normal, joyful selves.

Here are five simple ways to kick off your at-home spa day to help you discover your relaxation lifestyle.

1.    Morning Self-Massage. Craving a relaxing massage but can’t risk it during the pandemic? It’s time to give yourself an Ayurvedic self-massage. Called abhyanga, Ayurvedic self-massage involves rubbing warm, fragrant, herbal oils into your skin in a specific pattern—long strokes over the long bones and circular strokes over your joints, abdomen, and head. Start with your scalp and don’t forget your feet. See detailed instructions here. Designed to release toxins, calm your nerves, and tone your muscles, abhyanga is a surprisingly effective way to start your day. Not to mention how your skin will glow.

Not sure which massage oils are best for you? Use this guide:

Moisturizing Massage Oil calms mind and body with a blend of organic sesame oil, fragrant lemongrass, calming ashwagandha, and other stress-reducing herbal extracts.

Soothing Massage Oil cools the body and emotions with an herbal blend of organic sesame oil, heartwood oil, sandalwood, waterlily, and six other cooling and nourishing herbal extracts.

Stimulating Massage Oil invigorates mind and body with a stimulating blend of organic sesame oil, java citronella, jatamansi, and four other herbal extracts. Or give yourself a treat with Youthful Skin Massage Oil, a truly luxurious oil for deep relaxation and even deeper sleep. It combines jojoba and sesame oil with two different formulas of artisan-crafted herbs for men or women.

If you prefer to add your own essential oils for a custom massage experience, Organic Sesame Oil for Massage is a cold-pressed, chemical-free oil suitable for most skin types.

2.    Bathing and Nasya. After your massage, take a warm bath to allow the toxins to flow out of your tissues and into your eliminahttps://www.mapi.com/products/massage-oils/organic-sesame-massage-oil.htmltion system, where they can easily leave your body. While bathing is recommended, you can shower instead if time doesn’t allow. (Tip to avoid clogged drains: Allow the oil to soak into your skin at least ten minutes before bathing. You can also wipe off excess oil with an absorbent paper towel. Also, you don’t need excessive amounts of oil for an effective massage.)

After your bath, take a moment for nasya, a simple but powerful Ayurvedic technique that involves sniffing pure herbal oil to cleanse and protect your sinuses. Because the nasal passages provide a path to the brain, nasya helps calm the mind, too. Organic Clear & Soothe nasal spray makes it easy—you just squeeze the bottle and inhale. Its mild mixture of organic sesame oil and heart-leaf sida protects against allergens and balances Vata, Pitta, and Kapha.

3.    Yoga and meditation. Now that you’re awake and squeaky clean, it’s the perfect time for your morning yoga and meditation. I personally have had amazing results with the Transcendental Meditation (TM) technique, a simple, effortless way to set up your day with energy and clarity of thought. Because it’s so effective in releasing stress and creating profound balance in mind and body, TM is considered the foundation of Maharishi Ayurveda, and has been researched in studies sponsored by the NIH and published in peer-reviewed medical journals such as the AMA’s Hypertension.

Yoga asanas (postures) have also been found to create mind-balance and are the perfect way to relax your mind and body before you begin your meditation practice.

4.    Herbal Tea Ritual. Herbal teas, found in the ancient civilizations of China, Egypt, and India, have been cherished for their health benefits for thousands of years. The magical combination of herbs, warmth, and flavor soothes and relaxes. Of course, some people want their herbal tea to wake them up, while others want to calm down; so choose the tea to balance your particular needs for that time of day.

Morning: Raja’s Cup gives the satisfaction of a cup of coffee without the buzz. It’s actually a powerful antioxidant and a flavorful, gluten-free, herbal blend that balances all three doshas. Spicy and stimulating, Organic Stimulating Kapha Tea will chase away morning lethargy and is especially good during spring weather and for people with Kapha body types.

Afternoon: Organic Cooling Pitta Tea is perfect for summer afternoons, as it helps cool excess heat. It also helps with digestion. Afternoon is also a good time to slow down and destress with a cup of calming Worry Free Tea, which not only calms the mind but soothes frayed nerves and stabilizes your emotions—giving you that extra boost to finish your day’s tasks with ease.

Evening: A cup of calming Organic Calming Vata Tea early in the evening provides a great transition into your evening meditation session, helping to wash away the stress of work—and setting you up for a tranquil evening with your family or friends. And nothing beats Slumber Time Tea before bed for slowing down your mind and helping you enter a state of deep sleep with ease. Eat a light, nourishing evening meal, turn off your screens at 8:00 and listen to music, enjoy light conversation, or take an evening stroll instead. With all this relaxation going on, you’ll find yourself slipping into a deep night’s sleep before 10:00pm.

5.    Aroma Therapy for Balance Throughout the Day. Inhaling the fragrance of essential oils of flowers is an easy way to maintain balance all through the day. Experiment with Calming Vata aroma oil while you meditate, Cooling Pitta or Blissful Heart aroma oil if feeling frustrated or irritable, and Slumber Time to ease into a deep, restful sleep. Sniffle Free aroma oil helps clear the sinuses and enhance immunity, and Stimulating Kapha is great for getting your body moving on sleepy mornings.

For no-hassle aroma therapy, try this elegant bamboo diffuser. It’s not only a beautiful addition to the room, but it disperses the oils using a cool ultrasonic mist instead of heat, thus protecting the integrity of the delicate flower essences. This diffuser doubles as a humidifier, and shuts itself off when the water level goes low. Plus it’s quiet and doesn’t interfere with sleep, and contains an optional nightlight.

Pure sandalwood incense is another way to diffuse cooling sandalwood aroma into a room. It’s a traditional choice for creating a sacred space and refining the senses for meditation and yoga.

Experiment with your at-home spa day, and find out for yourself how great it feels. This is the first step to creating a lifestyle based on relaxation—and a great way to make the most of your expanded at-home time.

(I originally wrote this blog for the Maharishi Ayurveda Blog [MAPI], August 13, 2020. Reprinted with permission.) 

BY LINDA EGENES

Zoom Meetings- Are you Zoomed Out? How to Create Balance in the Age of ScreensI’m perfecting my yoga these days with a weekly class on Zoom. My professor husband spends hours teaching classes and attending department meetings in front of a screen. And for many people during the Covid-19 crisis, online video chatting has been a lifeline—a way to connect with family and friends.

If there’s one common denominator in the country right now, it’s our new dependence on screens. According to Clockwise, the creator of an online calendar assistant, employees are spending 29 percent more time in online group meetings and 24 percent more time in one-on-one meetings than before the lockdown. And whether you love it or hate it, it’s likely that this trend is not going to go away even after schools and gyms open up and we can travel to see family again.

I personally love it that my favorite yoga teacher now visits me in my living room, even if she’s only on the screen. One of my friends who attended her class reunion online thought it was the best one yet, since every person had a chance to share how they were doing. And one mom wrote that she was thrilled to meet her friends for a Zoom dinner party without having to dress up or hire a babysitter. These are new and creative uses of technology that have changed our lives for the better.

But for other people who spend all day in online meetings or virtual classrooms every day, there’s a curious new syndrome developing called Zoom Fatigue. It turns out that interacting with others on a screen for hours can wear you out.*

Scientists have identified a few reasons for Zoom Fatigue, such as the constant technology glitches. Freezing screens, that 1.2-second lag between people’s lips moving on the screen and hearing their voices, the fumbling with the mute button, the echoes and feedbacks, the unnatural pauses—each create anxiety that something is going wrong, and that tires out the mind and body.

It also requires more focus to conduct a video call, says Gianpiero Petriglieri, a researcher who explores sustainable learning in the workplace. Virtual conversations mimic real ones, but they’re not the same. When conversing with others on screens our minds have to work much harder to read facial cues, detect subtle changes in the tone and pitch of the voice, and observe body language (impossible to do when there’s only a talking head visible).

Then there’s the cognitive dissonance when we’re talking to a screen. “Our minds are together when our bodies feel we’re not,” explained Petriglieri in an interview with the BBC. “That dissonance, which causes people to have conflicting feelings, is exhausting. You can’t relax into the conversation naturally.”

Whether we love it or hate it, we need to find ways to stay fresh and alert while conducting our lives on screens. Here are five hacks to help you take advantage of the plus side of computer connectivity without the fatigue.

1. Turn off the self-view window so you’re not distracted by your own image throughout the call.

Get your lighting and look set before the meeting, take one last look in at your self-view window, then go to your settings and turn it off. Why? Most people can’t help but focus on their own image during a video call, and that is not only distracting but can be distressing when you’re hyper-critical about the way your mouth moves or your eyes shift. For me it’s similar to getting seated in a restaurant opposite a mirror—I can’t conduct a decent conversation when confronted with my own mirror image, so I always ask to be seated at a different chair. Bottom line: focusing on two frames at once divides your mind and attention, creating mental strain.

2. Take a virtual water-cooler break.

When you’re at the office, you naturally get up between meetings to get a drink of coffee or gather at the water cooler. You can achieve the same effect by scheduling a ten-minute break between calls or calling for a break half-way through a two-hour session. Take a quick walk around your home or apartment, get up for a drink of water, do a few stretches or salutes to the sun, or gaze out your window at the view to relax your eyes.

3. Make your Zoom spot comfortable and switch it up.

If you had to conduct back-to-back meetings in the same meeting room at your office, you’d soon ask for a change of scenery. You can achieve the same effect at home by switching to the couch for one meeting, sitting in your office chair at another. Make sure your background looks professional and uncluttered, and that you have a comfy chair that supports your back.

You can also switch to phone or audio to give yourself a break from staring at the screen. Not every call has to be a video call (after all, we used to conduct many one-on-one meetings on the phone). Giving your eyes a rest, and the choice to get out of the chair and stand up and stretch for a speaker-phone call can provide needed variety. Sitting all day can create a variety of health risks, so create ways to stand, stretch, and move about during the day to lower the risk of metabolic syndrome and pump oxygen to your brain.

4. Refresh your eyes.

Staring at the screen all day is hard on the eyes, which is why some people end up with bleary eyes and head pressure at the end of the day. If you’re stuck on a long call, take a mini-break by turning off your video and shifting your eyes to look through a window or anywhere away from the screen. Blink to replenish cleansing fluid to dry eyes. After the call, dampen a cotton ball with pure Organic Rose Water and place it over your closed eyes. Lean back and relax for ten minutes while the naturally cooling, calming essential rose water refreshes your tired eyes. End your mini-spa treatment with palming: place your palms lightly over your eyes and relax into the moment to soothe eye fatigue and release stress. Find instructions for palming and other eye exercises here.

5. Ease Performance Stress and Screen Strain.

Video calls can make you feel like you’re perpetually on, with all eyes on you even when you’re not the speaker. Take Worry Free to overcome anxious feelings, EMF exposure, or computer overstimulation. This remarkable herbal compound is my personal go-to for dissolving mental strain, as it not only calms my mind but emotions too—not to mention helping me sleep better. Powerful anti-stress herbs such as ashwagandha and jatamansi provide a natural solution to mental tension and worry—including the computer kind.

6. Give your brain a boost.

If you’re feeling the need to sharpen your memory to stay on top of the technology, Organic Brahmi (Bacopa) is a revered and ancient Ayurvedic brain tonic and neuro adaptogen. It boosts the brain and nervous system’s resistance to stress, supports the intellect, and rejuvenates memory function.

*The syndrome has been named after the popular video-conferencing software Zoom, but this discussion is about any video conferencing experience and is not meant to be an endorsement of any one program.

(I originally wrote this blog for the Maharishi Ayurveda Blog [MAPI], June 23, 2020. Reprinted with permission.)